Many adults with ADD have a hard time slowing down their brains.
Thoughts often come at whirlwind speed, and it can be hard to
concentrate on the tasks at hand when so many other thoughts are
floating around in the brain. I call this "mental clutter."
Often
times, mental clutter is made up of worries and bad feelings. (Very
few people get overwhelmed by the amount of positive thoughts in their
heads!) Regrets of the past and worries about the future can easily
overshadow the present moment. Self-doubt can also take up a lot of
space in the mind. When an excess of these types of thoughts take over
in the brain, it can be stressful, upsetting, and sometimes even
paralyzing.
The best way to clear this mental clutter is to
process the thoughts, rather than letting them swim around in your
brain. Doing so will allow you to focus on the present moment, and feel
more calm and centered.
The following 3 methods have proven very helpful in clearing mental clutter.
1. Write
A
great way to clear mental clutter is to transfer the thoughts from your
brain onto paper. This can be in the form of a to-do list, an email to
a supportive person in your life, or a journal entry. When the
thoughts are recorded, there is no need for your brain to hold on to
them.
Additionally, if you feel weighed down by a situation (like
an argument with a family member) writing about it can help you process
your feelings. You can get a better grip on the events, how you feel,
and what you might have done differently. A page or two might be all it
takes.
2. Talk
Many people with ADD are "verbal
processors." This means that we often work through thoughts and
feelings by talking them out. It helps to have an objective person to
talk to, who can mirror your thoughts and talk them out with you.
However, the very act of talking is often what does the trick, so having
someone to talk to isn't always necessary. Many people find that
talking into a tape recorder suits their needs. Others talk to plants
or animals. (I talk to my dog so much that I'm surprised she doesn't
talk back by now!)
3. Move
Some ADDers can clear mental
clutter by moving. Something as simple as a 10-minute walk can give the
brain a needed jolt. Others may find that they feel free of extraneous
thoughts after a visit to the gym. The time alone combined with the
physical activity proves to be a successful formula for some ADDers to
work through their mental clutter.
It's best to experiment with
the different methods and see which work best for you in the different
areas of your life. The important thing to know is that with a little
time-out, mental clutter can be cleared!
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